September, the beginning of autumn. Harvest, pumpkins, a coolness in the air, brightly colored leaves. A time of the earth preparing for the slumber of winter. During the last two weeks, I have continued to sort through the pictures and documents from our Pennsylvania trip. Progress is slow and deliberate. I am following several leads and will report on findings in later posts. I hesitate to post information here when I haven’t completed the research. A rant about shaky and fallen leaves will wait for another day.
On our trip, we visited 14 cemeteries, some with as few as 20 graves and some with over a thousand. My relatives are not buried in all of the cemeteries. As we drove the twisting roads of the Pocono Mountains in northeastern Pennsylvania, the cemeteries beckoned to us. My husband wanted to find graves from the Revolutionary War. I was intrigued by the appearance of the cemeteries themselves. Most were well cared for. Others had been tended less often but showed signs of some care.
An overgrown cemetery next to an old barn was one of our unexpected stops. The underbrush was so thick in places that a machete or a chainsaw was needed to get to some gravestones. Names on the gravestones indicate that this was probably a family plot. Our initial reaction was sadness – had these people been forgotten by their descendants? But then again, maybe not. Relatives may have moved away. Perhaps the designated local caretaker has not visited in the past year or two. Given the environment and weather of the area, it would not take long for the cemetery to be re-claimed by nature. We took pictures of some stones. A fairly new stone led to discovery of the name of the cemetery — Orange Methodist Church Cemetery, Franklin Township, Luzerne county, Pennsylvania,  which contains 92 graves. The fact that information about the cemetery is posted online reassured us that the people buried there have not been forgotten. I can feel a BSO approaching – discover the story about one or two of the people buried here, even though they aren’t my relatives!
Unfortunately, stories of these forgotten cemeteries appear frequently. On a happier note, I would also like to report that most were very well tended, such as Friends’ Burial Ground in the heart of Stroudsburg, Monroe county, Pennsylvania. My paternal great-great-great grandparents, Thomas Postens (1782 – 1854) and Esther Brown (1790 – 1840) are buried there. Thomas is the oldest Posten ancestor whom I have been able to positively identify. Visiting their graves was definitely a highlight of our trip! Burial in this cemetery means that they were most likely Quakers. Esther’s stone appears to have been broken and pieced back together. Her birthdate was new information to me. This was an emotional reunion as my only prior contact with Thomas and Esther had been online and through documents.
A cemetery caretaker shared information that was new to us. Cemetery plot books usually show the name of the person who bought the plot(s) and what section the plot(s) are in. The plot book may or may not have the names of everyone who is actually buried there! For example, a man buys plots for himself, his wife, their children and spouses. One or two children move to another town, county, or state. One child dies young; another child does not marry. Other relatives are buried in the plots not used by the couple’s children. The plot(s) themselves are registered under the name of the person who paid for them. A list of those who are actually buried in the cemetery is often a different list than the list of plot owners.
In summary, remember to thank the caretakers of cemeteries! As they mow and weed, the caretakers watch over our ancestors. The caretakers who we encountered were friendly and helpful. Each one was familiar with the names of those buried in the cemetery or knew where to look for the information. In one cemetery, the caretaker saved us hours by directing us to the exact location of my Fulkerson relatives. His only question , “Fulkersin [with an ‘I’] or Fulkerson [with an ‘O’]?” When I said, “Both”, he laughed and left his mowing to walk us down a hill to an entire row of Fulkerson/ Fulkersin graves.
 Find A Grave, database with images (http://www.findagrave.com : accessed 14 Aug 2017), memorial #168124776 , Perry K. Coolbaugh (1890 – 1975), Orange Methodist Church Cemetery, Franklin Twp, Luzerne county, Pennsylvania: gravestone photograph by Debbie; gravestone also photographed by Jerry L. Ellerbee on 14 Aug 2017.